Signs You Shouldn't Go On a Second Date

Typically, you go on a first date with the goal of going on a second date. Even if you don’t click instantly, a second date is a good way to get to know someone without all the nerves you had on a first date.

But sometimes, going on a second date with someone isn’t a good idea. How do you know if that second date should happen or not? If you notice these signs, you should probably say no if they ask for a second date.

1. You felt unsafe
2. They gave you the ick
3. The date felt like a chore
4. They’re rude to the server
5. You want different things
6. They have fundamentally different views from you
7. They rip into their ex
8. They spoke about themselves only and didn’t ask about you
9. You feel a sense of dread when their name pops up on your phone
10. The date feels like a square peg and round hole situation

Source: Bolde