Moving in together is a huge step. Sometimes it makes sense and is awesome. But sometimes, it may not be the best idea for your relationship.
It’s a big commitment – there’s no shying away from that. You’re living with someone and seeing them in a whole new light. There are some signs you should look out for that show you shouldn’t move in together, at least not just yet. Here’s some of them that may get you rethinking things.
- Things have suddenly taken a major downturn in your relationship and you’re fighting almost every day
- They’ve gotten violent, emotionally abusive, or controlling
- You’re really not financially stable enough
- They’re not financially stable enough to handle it
- One or both of you have a lot of growing up to do
- In all honesty, you really don’t see the relationship progressing to marriage
- You really go out of your way to clean the house before he arrives
- You don’t feel comfortable being yourself around him
- Your life goals are as similar as black and white
- Your gut is begging you to stay where you are
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Source: Bolde