Of course hindsight is 20/20 and it’s not always easy to see things in the moment they’re happening. Being present in the moment is so important and can help you see things more clearly. It can also help you from not being in denial and trying to make a relationship work that may not be working. To help you see better, here are three signs that your relationship is going downhill fast.
- Your values are not in sync. One of the biggest values for people is religious and what they believe or don’t believe in. This can inevitably become a reason to conflict so it’s important to talk about it from the get-go. You need to be 100% honest about your beliefs and what you don’t believe in up front to help prevent this.
- You like sensuality, they like sex. Sex and sensuality are two different things. You may need true intimacy, like holding hands while walking, instead of just sex. Be sure to share your feelings and attitudes about sex from the start.
- You’re emotional, your mate is logical. Yes, emotional people and logical people can get along but it does take a lot of effort and awareness. Over time, with one of you being more emotional and one of you being more logical, it can lead to a lot of miscommunication.
Source: Your Tango