We’ve always heard about having toxic partners.. but what if you’re really the toxic one in a relationship?! We don’t want to think that, but no one’s perfect. If you engaged in these 10 behaviors, you likely are the problem in your relationship.
- Your go-to answer is “no.” Relationships are a give and take, you should be at least willing to listen to your partner’s request.
- You self-sabotage for no reason. Are you causing problems in an otherwise totally healthy relationship?
- You let your partner do all the work. This includes they daily responsibilities of the house, work, and even work on the relationship.
- You go silent instead of talking about your feelings. Things don’t get resolved by ignoring the issue.
- You never say you’re sorry. You need to admit when you’ve done something wrong.
- You vent to your friends instead of working things out with your partner. You should never talk sh*t behind their back.
- You create drama for the thrill of it. It doesn’t keep the passion alive.
- You can’t let things go. Forgiveness is key.
- Your partner is afraid to be honest with you. They’re worried you’ll fly off the handle and don’t wanna deal with it.
- You try to change the person you’re dating, but never want to change yourself. You should both be growing and learning together!
Source: Your Tango