You could compare the complex and competitive housing market to modern dating. Finding “the one” can feel nearly impossible. psychologist and relationship expert Sabina Read suggests there are real similarities between finding the perfect partner and your dream first home. Here are six tips that work for finding both a first home and a partner:
- Bring compassion and realism to your expectations. Seeking perfection is tiring!
- Trust your gut. If you get the sense that something isn’t right or isn’t for you, it probably isn’t.
- Let go of rigid thought processes. Keep an open mind.
- Play the long game. We can be blinded by love at first sight and easily glance over any flaws. Take your time and don’t rush.
- Make it your own. You have the opportunity to create a home and choose a partner who is exactly what you want.
- Be authentic with yourself and others. Don’t pretend to be (or afford) something you aren’t.
Source: Life Hacker