“Elegance coach” Anna Bey (no, I didn’t know ‘elegance coach was a thing either) has seven signs she says indicate you’re dating a “low quality man.” Considering Bey married her “very affluent” husband during lockdown and has over 900-thousand “YouTube” subscribers, maybe there’s something to her thoughts? We don’t know – you be the judge:
- If he expects to go 50/50 in the relationship: This includes wanting to split the bill. Bey notes that “Society is not equal for men and women first of all. We are not 100 per cent equal and we can never become equals simply because biologically we are not built equally.”
- If he makes you feel weird or clingy for wanting commitment: This commitment can be anything from an official relationship, getting married, or making the decision to have children.
- If he is flaky, ghosts you, vanishes, or is unreliable: According to Bey, the “rule number one in dating is if he doesn’t keep his promises, is unreliable or ghosts you – one time, OK… things happen. Second time, bye.”
- If he lacks depth: This includes having no interests except for football, drinking, or video games. It’s important to have things in common with each other!
- If he lacks any form of basic gentleman’s skills: Chivalry isn’t dead! At least it shouldn’t be. Smalls things, such as men walking in front of his girlfriend, not waiting for her, and so on show. Plus, if a men is selfish in bed, that is not very gentlemanlike either.
- If he starts manipulating you: If a woman starts to set boundaries in a relationship, and a man responds by calling them a “gold-digger” or “materialistic,” that is a tell-tale warning sign that the man himself is selfish and even a bit narcissistic.
- If he is still a party boy: There is a difference between enjoying the occasional party and a man who goes out clubbing every single weekend, especially without you. It’s also different if you’re young or both in that lifestyle, but if you are in your later twenties or older and you yourself are not in that type of lifestyle, it’s a red flag.
Source:Anna Bey