We gotta love our friends, but sometimes they work our last nerve. And there may be a point when it becomes toxic…and as much as we know it’s wrong, we don’t want to lose our bestie.
Your Tangosays you need to do this in order to “fix” things:
- Establish boundaries- Let ‘em know what you’re willing to take and the line they should never cross.
- Be clear; don’t hint- There’s no need to beat around the bush when you’re trying to get something solved. Let your friend know that their attitude is the reason you don’t go to their house anymore.
- Don’t blame yourself- Remember that they’re grown and old enough to make their own decisions.
- Don’t be afraid to walk away- Sometimes you have to exit stage left when things aren’t improving. They may just get better when you leave.
Source:Your Tango