Dating has never been easy, but especially in this COVID world it’s become even harder. But a new dating trend called “hardballing” may make it that much better. Hardballing is when you act like a CEO, making quick and hard decisions, to take full ownership of your love life. That sounds pretty badass to us. Who has time to play games anymore?!
Logan Ury, Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, explains, “Hardballing is a new dating term that means someone is being clear about their expectations of a relationship, whether you want a serious long-term partnership or a casual fling."
Now can you be a hardballer? First you need to figure out what you actually want from a relationship. Next, communicate that – whether it be in person or putting it in your dating profile.
Basically, hardballing can help you cut out that unnecessary BS that tends to come along with dating. You know what you want and you are not going to settle for less. But just be careful that you don’t act too quickly and cut people off before giving them an actual chance.
Source:InStyle